Love Advice For Boomers - 5 Amazing Steps To Find A Mate

During my career as an astrological consultant, I've helped a number of clients get back into the dating game after long layoffs. You don't have to know anything about astrology to go through the surprising steps below, although an astrological consultation can help you identify key times when you're most likely to be successful at finding love again. Since the process of finding a mate or new relationship is not what most people would expect, I'm sharing these not-so-easy but very successful steps to finding love when you've been single for awhile.

Step 1: Wake-up Attraction. The first surprising step on the path to true love is a failed attraction. Suddenly, you turn from Mr. or Ms. Long-Time Single And Not Really Complaining About It into Mr. or Ms. Boomer Has a Hopeless Crush. You meet someone through work, run into an old flame, or develop a yen for a new neighbor.

These attractions are often "in the stars," although you won't usually realize this at the time. But the crush comes with an expiration date, an obstacle, a delusion, or some element of futility. Whoever it is that you have a crush on--it just won't work. Your crush is unavailable, doesn't reciprocate the feelings, or something else equally heartbreaking.

But that doesn't mean the crush is stupid or negative. Just the opposite. It's crucial. It stirs up hormones, revives hopes, awakens the heart, tugs at sensual memories and makes you realize why love and relationships are such wonderful things. It makes you want to establish an exclusive romantic commitment again. These crushes are gifts.

Step 2: Grieving/Clearing. The failed attraction then sets off a period of doubt and self-questioning, loneliness and difficult feelings. The astrology of attraction is replaced by the astrology of confrontation with the self and with the past. Uncomfortable but incredibly valuable emotions and memories come back into consciousness. You find yourself grieving the lack of relationship...

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